Our Stay-at-Home Musings
“Fears are tangible and may not be eliminated but we do not have to be controlled by them. When we change our thinking, we change the way we see the world around us. We find that as we navigate the obstacles, we uncover opportunity.”
It is trite to say our world has changed and we live in fear. In March, I was in Ireland at an international meeting with the leaders of my religious community. Surrounded by the beautiful Irish coastal countryside and with an emerging backdrop of COVID-19, Sisters from Ireland, England, Ghana, Nigeria, and the US discussed the future of our international group. With the 8-hour time difference, the early mornings allowed me opportunity to follow the news of California from the day before and be in contact with the Crossroads staff before the next day began for them. Our much anticipated major fundraiser for the year with Martin Sheen and Melissa Fitzgerald reading A.R. Gurney’s Love Letters had to be cancelled.
Since my return … businesses have closed…movement has become more restricted…and we pay attention to numbers like a bookie managing his bets. Terms like social distancing, essential businesses, shelter-in-place, have become part of our everyday vocabulary. Empty streets, extended lines outside stores, and face masks are common sites.
The Crossroads office is closed to the public but our work continues as usual and women continue to come asking for a new beginning. As we try to ease their fears, we also learn from their resilience and determination. Fears are tangible and may not be eliminated but we do not have to be controlled by them. When we change our thinking, we change the way we see the world around us. We find that as we navigate the obstacles, we uncover opportunity.